The Basic Order of a Ceremony

Civil,cultural and religious rituals differ of course, but if you were to outline a standard service it would look something like this (words in blue are required by the Marriage Act 1961):

Processional - The couple and wedding party enter the ceremony ‘space’ usually with accompanying music.

Opening remarks - The celebrant speaks about the purpose of the ceremony - the joining of the two of you in marriage.

Readings and Rituals - These, as well as additional musical selections may be incorporated anywhere throughout the service.

The "giving away"- If you opt for this tradition, that could happen now. If present, this is also a time to acknowledge friends and family and the importance of their presence.

The Monetem - A statement by the celebrant saying this is a legal ceremony within the requirements of the Marriage Act.

Statement of Intent/Asking - The celebrant asks the two of you whether you are each coming of your own free will to marry each other and if you are prepared to do so. This is your public announcement to the guests as witnesses, of the vows you are about to take.

Exchange of Vows - Must be said by the couple being married (may be repeated after the celebrant). These are your personal words to each other.

The ring ceremony - Usually accompanied by personal vows. There may be only one ring, or you give each other wedding rings. This can be added to by the celebrant about the meaning of the ring/s.

Closing remarks - From the celebrant

Declaration of Marriage - pronounced husband and wife.

Signing of the Registers – Takes a few minutes. Music could be played at this time.

Presentation of Certificate

Recession - The celebrant invites guests to welcome the newly married couple and music begins as close of ceremony.